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I am an Air Force wife and mother of three precious gifts from God. I enjoy learning at home with my children, and the many adventures this life sends our way. So stop by often to visit, and check out what the Five Nomads are up to.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Sacrifice. . .

We are halfway through the commitment of Nutcracker. It has taken a HUGE chunk of our time. I've missed the bloggy world, I still need to finish a bit of shopping, and get to my holiday baking, but it has been worth every moment. Princess is having the time of her life.

More importantly this has been a great lesson in sacrifice, and what it really means to be part of a family. We are not 5 separate people, sharing space. We are a whole family unit, and it takes all of us working together to experience success. For The General and Bubby to know that they may have given up play time, but it helped Princess come out of her show with a beaming smile on her face. Well, that is priceless.

This thought may be counter to what our culture believes, but I think it is by these very sacrifices that our children thrive. To know they are part of something bigger than themselves, that others rely and count on them for happiness. In my humble, okay maybe not so humble, opinion, we would have a whole lot less depressed children and teens if they too really felt they were important and belonged to a loving family.

Right now this is Princess season. She is our star in the show. The Nomads are rallying for her. Come spring she will be able to return the favor when baseball season rolls around. Then our All Star will be The General. That is just how it is when you are part of the family.

6 comments:

  1. Amen! Preach it!
    That is how things go in MY world, too!
    It's a nice world, don't you think!

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  2. Self sacrifice with in the family grows you to practice it in a healthy way.

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  3. Tami, I love your posts. Half the time they make me cry. I don't comment very much, but I read everything you write. Keep it up, you're a great encouragement to me. ~Becky

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  4. Yes, yes, YES!! I don't think we can give our children a better gift than a sense of belonging, coupled with the certain knowledge that the world does not revolve around them. You're a pretty smart gal, Tami Nomad. :D

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